Abraham Hicks take on that 
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That is why there is so many different types of responasabilities that we most Naturally wouldn’t even take. We are taught many hindering and down-pulling traits. Even things which aren’t part of our character, become part of our character, weather it serves us or not, those things become intergrated (mostly) while growing up.