Effortless & Natural
Human Nature

... is not so effortless. And it is at this point less natural than one would (or could but surely should) expect it to be.

Originally, human nature is to have best friends that you can talk to about anything, and call up pretty much any time. And in every circle of friends, we used to have at least one friend with those wise, empathic tendencies. In a circle of friends, when we're still somewhat natural, there would typically be all different types of qualities; a funny type or two, an over serious one or two, a super sensitive one or two, a super caring and concerned one or two, and also, there'd be different skills among us. But these days, everyone is trying to fit some standard ideas of, not just how to be, but also regarding how to look, so that you end up with this pile of fake, pretentious, lost and insecure flock, who doesn't even know that they are insecure, because they never really got to grown into their own true self.
And of course, too many people don't even have a best friend.
But most people, as they don't know better than what they have experienced so far, think that they do have at least one good friend, until they encounter either that when trouble break loose, nobody shows up, nobody sticks around, or one or two stay but make things feel worse. Or, in the best case, they happen to meet and experience a real true friend, who is of natural human support, perhaps not perfect, but surely a being of love, in other words, truly intelligent. Basically, a forever refining human being of love.

And whenever someone has told me that they never had a better friend than me, or thanked me for being the only real friend around, I always get this unusual blend of feelings; happiness, gratefulness, sanity and insanity, love, shock, sadness and sorrow, all gathering all at once, as if there was some one grand event for every type of feeling to gather.
And always in the reflection of such incidents, I get the feeling to want to pick up the world and shake it back to its senses while shouting "Wake up!". I always wanted to do something about it. But what? And How?

But then, while having this awareness and the questions around it, always on the sidelines of my mind, as so many other things that haven't been figured out yet, I one day realised that I already was, in a sense, doing something about it. And that since always, by simply being an example. And that this is the very reason itself, why people will sometimes tell me such a thing to begin with. From some perspective, I could suddenly see that they had begun to realise what a real friend is. At least! And I always just hope that they pass on such examples to others in life, and keep those good ripples going.

At some point in my travel life, I also noticed that I had something else going on, which was just much less common. Aside from making a best friend almost anywhere, just naturally without ever having thought of it, I would also always have someone coming to see me just to ask me a deep question, or ponder interesting things with me.
I would also have a travelling friend calling me on the phone throughout the years, and we are still connected, but just not travelling all the time, as we both used to do.

In those traveling years, it also happened twice that two different people, from 2 different countries, each asked me in their own different but very respectful ways, if there would be any way that I would concider not working but have my income substituted, to be more available for them on the phone while they are traveling. Though I never actually made a decision about it then, I am inspired by the idea now. In fact, since some years already, I think that it is time for this option to become a normal thing for refining humans. While AI is to replace so many jobs, most people are also completely alone with their inner being, and overall, the world has never been more insane.

I personally prefer and get much more out of that real, authentic human support to some life-coach or therapist, both of which would not be trending if we were Natural Humans as we once were. And so after years of pondering this idea, I now start the trend. And it is not the first one.

Real & Authentic
Human Connection
is life's Muse & Confidant
after all

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