For one! Anything goes, that is obviously an unconscious statement born out of fake love. Because we all know, that when we find ourselves in a position where we have to tolerate, it is not a good feeling, it is not pleasant at all, for if it was, you wouldn’t be tolerating, but rather enjoying.
It is also not pure or real love, but eg speaking, when parents tell children, to find a rich partner. It is totally related to, that the parent who’s says this, is affected by mainstream manipulations. From their manipulated free will, they blindly/unconsciously mean well, while they make such statements. Think about it, or rather feel about in in your heart; would you want your child to sell their soul for money!? ~In other words, would you want you child to sleep(~be having sex) with someone for money!?, ~and therein, very possibly have children, that are not made out of love, who will then be raised in a home that is of fake love!?
Percieve in terms of energy; this fact, that Science discovered long ago, that the earth has a frequency, which is exactly the same freqency as the heart.
All truth of the moment, right now, is felt, and intelligence is a matter of the heart, not the brain, which thinks and is rationalizing everything, functioning rather like a computer, cold without any intuition. Therefore you can not know truth through thinking, but only through feeling your way.
Humans measure intelligence with an invetion called IQ testing, by which they blind themselves with another lie, as it is the brain solving each task, and not the heart. The brain can imitate everything, by which we fool even ourselves, for example by thinking we want our child to be safe and have an abundant life, through marrying smart n cleverly, while neither smart nor clever is ever intelligent. The brain can be smart, clever and even sharp, but only the heart can feel and be intuitive, which is what intelligence is.
IQ tests only reveal your physical state of well being ~the brain. Because of this fact, you can test for yourself, how well you are able to score on the days, where you feel all fresh and clear minded, and then compare results from the same tests done, when you don’t feel fresh etc. at all. While you yourself will obviously be able to feel, no matter how ill or healthy you may be in any given moment.
Intelligence is of empathy, ~ it is of love, it is connected to ~one with all life. Whereas the brain is separated, and rules the ego, which is a mechanism to keep the whole physical aspect of you alive and safe. Therefore, when out of ballance it makes you behave out of big ego. The brain /the ego is rational, smart, clever, cold and competitive, etc. Wars competitions, judgements, accusations and business psychology are all matters of the brain, which is linear, while the heart~love is more chaotic and would never compete, judge, blame, abuse psychology for profit and power, and neither make wars, or have any such fears.
Only a person with an overgrown ego, (weather that overgrowth is due to suffering (~full of resentment and fears), or just being full of himself (~somehow spoiled, which is a word that we all know what it means; destroyed or rotten) will base their own idea of what love is, on either sex, some other factor they find beneficpial, or they might even base it on having kids within their relationship.
Obviously you are only loving someone, when your love does not depend on anything, but the feeling that you want to be with this person, that you want to have them in your life.
Selfish givers are those, who tend to be generous as an act of having learned they should, keeping them feeling kind and good, rather than compassionate ~ from feeling slightly sad, that situations in need of generosity exist at all.
When having fun, money and investments are of a higher priority to any man, than that of another human being’s well being and well feeling, then this plainly reveals that his free will is utterly manipulated.
All such individuals are far from free, and far from knowing any love but in fact a prisoner, enslaved by the so-called matrix, no matter how alternative he may think he lives.