I hope you can’t read this without answering

Having always, since teenage times, been the one who people come to, with their big questions and their issues and dramas, I’ve only experienced success and good effects with my efforts of approaching such things.
But whenever Ive ended up in trouble there’s noone helping, and if anyone tried, they were actually making things much worse.  I observe how people deal with each other, how they cause each other to lie and say they’re well when they’re not, because everyone asks “how are you” but nobody actually wants the real answer. So in other words, there’s disconnection, in other words nobody really cares about each other.

So now we’ve introduced humanity to you, so you have a better idea of what’s going on with these beings on this planet.

Since long I find myself in a position where I can’t believe whats going on, and feel like dying to hear the views  from the experience of others who at least have a good clue about these things, because now since too long I feel like either humanity is slightly insane, and even as if a bit retarded, or it must be me who is going severely gaga.

So PLEASE do give me your answers.


# 1
If a person has been through an accident that then turned into over ten yrs of hell, wouldn’t this person be emotionally and mentally exhausted, and be overly sensitive and tired of battling, tired of having to be strong?

#2
Would you keep pointing out all the critical obstacles to this troubled exhausted person, be descouraging like that everytime they come up with some new idea for the overall betterment of their situation, or would you rather share the joy of  such constructive conversation about the idea, ~ a conversation of dreaming up more useful details and aspects!?


#3
Would you, if sharing room and food with this person, would you just have dinner late at night and stay up all night, each time you have your 4days off, or would you think that we should keep a decent rhythm, if this burden of a person facing impossible things has to manage any of it at all!?
#4
Or would you instead keep them accountable for not being able to shift rhythm from one day to the next as soon as you have to work again!?

#5
Would you go out drinking after each working day, when you know that each time you’re influenced by alcohol you get argumentative and lecturing to this persons dying wellbeing!? 
#6
Would you ignore that this causes you to have dinner at 10 or 11, which makes the psyche feel as if its still early evening so that you don’t feel sleepy till sunrise?

#7
If a persons family have died too early, and they are countries apart from their friends, while they don’t even have a home anymore due to all that’s happend. Would you keep comparing and feel victim to the situation and compare their state of psyche to your own state, if you have a family business job, and a idyllic housing location with a decent sized space!?
#8
Or would you know that to get rid of the issue, all you have to do ~ the only useful effective thing you can do!, is keep being so that this person is reminded of all their good personal assets and SIDES?…so that they get stronger and manage thing better due to a better self confidence.

#9
And over all, would you keep smoking joints every day, around a person who needs to keep as clear a head as possible!? Or would you just be as modern disconnected human is, and think it’s all only their problem and not your business!?

The Dreamer Says;

It would be great, if this is the beginning of discovering how come most people don’t know how to love, besides that of the whole industrial theater of falsified ideas of what love is.

~ Well, while on the technological side we’re progressing like mad and totally shooting ourselves in the foot, on the natural side we’re disconnected, we’re deteriorated, if fact there we don’t even have a foot anymore, as if to say technology should finish killing planet earth now, because we’re done with intelligence. We’re still alive but obviously done. ~ SO YEAH IT WOULD BE GREAT, ABSOLUTELY;  It would be adressing the urgency, right when it’s almost too late!
But all the greatest things started like a nothing. So let’s just see what comes out of all the good answers accumulating.   Or if as mostly, nobody cares!?