It was literally 24/7 and it had nothing to do with sex. It had not even anything to do with being best at the time.

I grew up always having a best friend, even as I became a globetrotter I’d meet someone who then became my best friend. And the development of such a friendship always happens in different ways and can progress faster or slower. It’s the same as boy meets girl, just without all the sexual influences on the friendship quality. So I’ve always ended up living together with a best friend, traveling and working together, brushing teeth together, shopping and cooking together, or going out, basically doing everything together 24/7. And not a trace of any drama. One such best friend of mine was even inviting me allong on all her dates. And it always fell in well and was a nice time.

Living like that with a best friend is the best way to live. It feels like the best world family, and I haven’t ever experienced, seen or heard of anything that beats this way of life. Husbands, children and boyfriends can come thereto, but we should never break up the original center of it all. Keep it solid for life, because it’s the most Presciously Abundant of all foundations for a home base. And what an amazing environment for children to grow up in!

Living in unconditional love is always without any pressure, without any expectations beyond what wise loved ones would expect of you, but which is things like you being reliable and trustworthy, and equally caring of all what you share.

None of such things work well with spoiled people though. They tend to have issues with what seems like anything and everything from how many times someone cleaned up the kitchen or whatever, to percieving things from some place of ego instead of love, so that you end up having issues of blame, as if blame must be and someone has to be made the sinner to be the victim of that blame.

Spoiled people invent the craziest most senseless issues. For example such needless drama as say, you sleep in the same bed one night, and as you come last into bed you jump in and forget to close the light, and because the spoiled one always comes up with choosing what they think is most pleasing for them, this time, in this sleeping together situation, it was of course the choosing of which side to sleep on that they made into a case of must choose, by simply stating “I sleep on the outer side!” So then as you jumped into bed while forgetting to close the light, they start spinning it up into, that you did that on purpose just to irritate them, while you wonder who even thinks like that?, who would even come up with something so needless and useless, if anything at all, then it’s almost a bit psycho, very disturbing and destructive to all good feelings.

For example, they will agree not to eat all the sweets in the house, accept that this snack box is only for when we’re having cozy times together, and of course we buy our own snacks to enjoy as we please asside that. But when no-one sees, they keep sneaking to it and take a bit from that box which is not theirs, and day by day, little by little it starts to show that the content of the snackbox is getting less and less. And they don’t care. They feel as if they’re smart or something. Untill we all sit down on a cozy evening and open the box. But then they try to play innocent, they’ll try to deny, as if we should all be so stupid, and if that doesn’t work they expect sympathy (for freakin playing everyone for a fool) and get angry if they don’t get the sympathy. And they’ll just hold on to that you’re all wrong because it’s just a freakin box of candy. Meanwhile the point is, that they tend to be like that about most anything, so it’s never just that one given thing, rather that one thing, in this case the snack box, is just an example of how the spoiled egoist operates and thinks in general. And usually if they do something for good for us or our home, then you’ll mostly find that at least 50% of what they did was selfish. So it wasn’t out of love or care or even just thinking of any of you as such, but instead it was just out of something selfish that he or she wanted.

World Family living has to have a good foundation of min. 2 who are unconditionally loving. Then that can easily stay solid, even with a spoiled ego coming into that family. But if the base/foundatiin is made of one spoiled ego and one unconditionally loving one, then it will not go well, but be full of needless drama sufferings, untill the world family falls apart, which it almost guaranteed does.

But without the factors of any spoiled rotten person, the world has not much problems at all. And if any problems, then they’re taken care of without any bad feelings or drama between the people.

We share things because we take so good care of everything and each other. We’re like one solid family in the world. Amazing way of life. The best of all the different ways of life that I’ve been so lucky to be a part of. Nothing beats this way of life. The way religions want to run the world is absolutely rigid, stiff and totally unfiting for too many people, amd it ends up causing too much bad feelings and separation, just adding to humanity’s disconnection.

Living like this you stand so very strong in life, partly because you’re never in much any need, you never stand too weak, nor do you ever stamd alone, so you hardly ever really become needy of others. You’re rather safe and sound all the way, so you can really live and get things done and so forth, and really achieve things without all the world’s needless problems of the cold borderline retarded World full of all the lame insecurities causing all such things like jealousy hatred and egotrips, ~ creating like a whole box full of all sorts of components of the mega issue of human disconnection.

But to have such world family, also means (in my experience) that when one has no income they are carried allong by this world family, just like real family tends to be unconditional and investing in you. Amd I have noticed that this is the very thing that makes you feel more of that family love. It just works perfectly. And life over all is so much happier, easier and so much richer on all good things to keep you sane and well.

With your own loving world family you stand strongest in this world.

Well, I had it, but I let it go. I was already aware of what it was worth then, but because I knew that she, my best friend, was one of those with that simple and very fixed idea of herself in the future, being married and having a baby, I didn’t want to try explaining my unusual/unsecurerealisations and visions. It just felt more right to let her follow her own bliss, and she didn’t even really want to live on ibiza island to begin with, so I remained large about it and didn’t say a word. But of course it was the same as proudly and honorably letting the love of your life go.

I wonder how many people have noticed, that when getting to know a new best friend, it’s also falling in love. And here we much easier get to experience more of what unconditional love means, and therein what friendship really means, and how healthy it is. And it’s all Perfect Hints, showing you what all your relationships can be based on. Real love.