Wise Love Is not head over heels.
Wise Love Is Not infatuation, nor just based on attraction or something of the falling kinds.
Wise Love Is loving for the good feeling and understanding you experience with someone.
If you can say, I love you for loving my care and cuddles, my touch and efforts. If you can say I love you for the way you care about me, I love you for the ways you show that you think of me, I love you for the way you listen to me, for the way you contemplate things, and for the ways you show appreciation. …then your loving is wise.