You know all to well how badly the vibes of energy that they create, are hurting your day, your time, your peace, your feelings, ~ your energy.

What there is to realize (weather we want to or not) is that these battles such a person tends to pull us into, and/or provoke our nervous system with, will never go away. It will never end, because that type of person him or herself, seriously believes that you are similar enough to both-of-you being equally responsible for the creations of those battles, mainly just due to the fact that he or she actually thinks and believes, that you are, just as they are, a manipulating liar.

No matter how unfair that may be for you, and no matter how much it hurts ~how it feels as if it’s crushing your heart and guts into pieces, they will never be able to believe that you are not actually as they are. Because if they were able to somehow know that, then they would not keep terrorizing you, because then they would be afraid of loosing you.

But if you stuck around, forgiving them all the evil sht they’ve done to you (like I have done for 33yrs) then you could hardly blame them for believing whatever shit they believe about you.

100% as you can (hopefully) see now, you have been taken for granted the whole life-time with this person.

I sound like a complete idiot with no self asteem, no self love. Yes I know, but actually I also know it is only due to my father, that I was blind. And in fact meeting my manipulating liar friend /~my terrorizing monster, did actually help me survive my own dad, by making me stronger, creating a balance, because he was extremely mean to me as well (and never affectionate, never loving ~ so I didn’t know better, …it took a long way of hardship alone out there traveling the world, to gradually discoverbwho and how I myself actually really am, and especially in contrastt to my monster-friend, and what all really good friends actually are, which inmostly turned outbto be the best example of myself, no matter how ironic that may seem. …sometimes we are really most blind to what happens to be the very closest to us.

But, knowing these things, we can better face the truth that such a situation is out of our hands, in such a way that the only ONE thing we actually can do to free our existence from such nightmares, is to keep away from these ones who are creating them.

AND REMEMBER THAT, WEATHER FORTUNATELY OR UNFORTUNATELY;

A thief thinks every man steals.

~which is bound to ALWAYS charge you as guilty within their company, no matter what you do. Such battles can not be won. The only thing you can do about it,is to stay away from such a person. ….before they give you cancer or drive you over the cliff in some other ways.