When we give in, as something have become too much for too long, naturally causing your system to become dysfunctional.

Either you can’t sleep, or can’t wake up properly or both. You don’t wanna be social, perhaps you don’t even feel like going outside in the grey cold city winter scenery. Till eventually you don’t have much of a life.

I’d say, just get the hell out of that grey cold city environment. But ok, everything requires money, which most people don’t have enough of, because some exaggerated minor group of our world owns pretty much everything even your property as its bought with their money, of which every single coint is in fact in minus, meaning that even the money you do have, are truly nothing but bept within their so-called value.

So here I am, feeling stuck. And as usual it’s because of the lack of money.

I was riding high, having worked myself up to a positive and very active state of being. Even when I got unfairly fired from my dance job in the Austrian Alps, my energies did not move down the scale. Then I spent some weeks back with my love who was in a very moody space feeling winter depressed, behaving rather angry and slightly mean.

I took off for another job which didn’t work out either, so back again to my love, who was still in a place with himself that feetllt spiteful to me, where everything i say or do is just wrong or taken wrong regardless, and therefore turns into an fight-arguing atmosphere. This was where my system started gaving in …. this was when my evergies began feeling the downpulling things like disappointment and discouragememt, which results in sadness, like nothing works,like things just worknagainst you, regardless of how much you give it all you’ve got, tillnyou just need a littlenbreak, but instead everything crumbles before your eyes, which results in a breakdown of some kind. And whether it is the sad energies syncing up with more sad things and situations, and thereby attracting more of those to your life, you just know that now youre in the toxic shits again for nothing, for no progress, for nothing that is good for you at all, and of course that kills you even more, as youre just left in the middle of a battle all beat up and unable to move on again, and without having acheived to get closer to any of your goals at all. All our energies feel wasted, and it all leaves you feeling like youre just dying the slowest of painfull deaths again.

But now if my love comes sad to me, I automatically as if take a step aside my own feelings of issues, enough to be there of loving compassion for him, with the natural mission to keep on, at least untill I can feel he is getting better, that his energy has shifted. And all just because,
first of all, I know how it feels, so I know the loving feeling energies we need in such a state, and that it doesn’t even costs any of us anything to be of love to each other.
And second of all, it is already enough that one has become dysfunctional, and that we logically and definately dont need us both to be fckd up. why burden us both, why make sure theres downpulling energies from all sides hello!?
Here we have one of those perfect cases of, Whatever you do for yourself, you do for me, and whatever you do for me, you do for yourself.

And it is an absolute no go, to have a big mouth of promising forecasts and  promises in general, as if you are not 110% sure you will fulfill your promises, then you’re obviously causing that person already getting crushed with sadness to just get more weight on that killing load. Why the hell would you do that if you’re not retarded or right out spitefully evil!?

I’ve learned from elsewhere, from within a nother family, that when someone within the family is sad, then we are all to gather around that person to take of the load from them in whatever creative and even experimental ways we can and keep doing so, showing the sad person how much they matter to us, make them feel over loved and needed, as a nessesary part of the whole, not by saying those things in words but by behaving accordingly to these facts. And the over all reasons of wisdom for this saviour behaviour is, that as a family, or as a whole of any kind, you logically (as above so bellow) must see to your hurt or your dis’eased parts of any kind, otherwise there will be the  consequences of it swelling up and growing, in other word be spreading out like an infection, causing more damage.
Therefore we must also be honest and authentic, and not hold things in untill they burst out of us or even explode, as that is not fair to anyone or anything within your environment, who could have had the chance to love you accordingly to make it fade out, instead of letting it grow out of control.

But what if a team of let’s say just two, become broken feeling sad at the same time!? Then what do we do?

Well, it is generally always easier to be selfless and of love to someone else, than to deal with your own “nonsense”, and the natural reason or feedback for that is, that as you are being of love to someone else, it is putting you more and more strongly within your heart space (just to put words on it to make it as vividly clear as possible), and the being in your heart space (which, the longer you stay in there, the more centered in it you are becoming, which is also making you stronger), so that by the time you get enough of a break to turn back to facing your own “nonsense”/problems/issues of whatever pain in the ass or any torture, you’re now in a state of being from which your own stuff now doesn’t look nor feel as bad as it did before. And on top of that, many times it’s even better than just that, where you turn back to face your own problems and find that they have been dissolved by the fact that you see things differently now….from your frequency of love/from your heart space.

So if we are both in pains, then we can both be of love, when not to ourselves, then to each other.

The sad you, needs to transcend into love, immediately however possible that is. Firstly because it is most damaging to you and all yours, and secondly because next to that it becomes damaging to the ones and things within your environment. And logically you don’t want a damaged  environment on top of everything.
And the easiest fastest way to transcend into love, is by being of love to someone else. Using your loving understanding fearlessly. Being there.

Such efforts are easier than the same thing doen for yourself. And as it bring only good in the end, then it would be rather retarded not to use this most useful and most effective opportunity of unavoidable betterment and sure ways to solutions.

Rome wasn’t built in one day, and neither doest it tend to take just one day for us, to get the feeling/get convinced that there is love, to get it that how we feel matters to someone else, and even less so do we tend to get to feeling that we are unconditionally loved to the point that we can feel belonging.

Or alternatively, yeah just careless like any primitives without wisdom, let people feel broken till their wounds infect, and just let them suffer till it all spreads out for all to become miserable…. If you hate feeling good, and don’t want a good  life….then you can let your ego in the drivers seat. Of course you’ll, no doubt, get to see where it takes you.

Looking back throughout experiences of time, it appears that there is a kind of insurance to things, where in this case it is perhaps best called

The Safeguard LOVE-Guarantee Of Fait

Anything that is good for the one next to you, will guaranteed also be good for you, otherwise they wouldn’t be there with you.

There is not coincidence as such.

As the old saying goes,
To help another, ~ is to help yourself.
… Or even,
As above, so bellow.

We’ve got to feel compassionate for each other. ~ be sensitive in the right ways to each other, in the more wise ways. Not play ill as if your feelings become mine if I allow to feel with you, as this is obviously a damn illusion that can never be real, only in your egoistic imagination. When in fact, in the feeling with someone, you can merely just feel some of what they are feeling, and that makes them feel that they are not lonely, because someone understands (which can only happen without judgement, so they even begin to feel safe with you). And in order to heal, me must firstly feel safe where we are, with whom ever we are.

We All Know
EVERYBODY NEEDS SOMEBODY
Love Heals.
Everyone needs to feel special, and feeling special is to feel loved.
The effects of giving love to someone, is simultaneously fueling you with love, all at the same time. When you are in love~full of love, you are within your mightiest of most powerful.
(it is like a secret we should not tell, because it opens up the door for the motivation behind giving love, to become at least a partly selfish one, for some cases more, and in some cases less, but obviously the intention is to be selfless to work it magic, so one should not reveal this detail of truth to just anyone, as most humans will start to be good for selfish reasons, which destroys the magic of unconditional love, as that influence of ego would make it be conditional.)